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helen hayward's avatar

This is an astonishing read at so many levels that I might have to read it again in order to comment on it intelligently. Except to say that I am a fellow traveller and that I always stop what I'm doing to read your newsletter before going back to whatever I was doing (today it's pegging up washing, writing at the kitchen table, walking the dog, cooking croquettes) feeling much richer for it. Thank you thank you!

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Amy B's avatar

Oh my goodness, this essay is beautiful. Many of your points ring so true to me, and I especially love this bit: “Integrity is the discernment of what is mine: what I love for its own sake, for the sake of my soul and its engagement with the world, versus what I love out of craving, because of what it’ll do for my ego, for other people’s perceptions of me, for my false sense of certainty and security, for control.”

I’m starting to tease this out, to figure out what I love for it’s own sake, and also to deal with the feelings of being judged and/or measured and/or devalued for it.

Also your thoughts on “woo” and birth and the medical system. And on our education system. So many systems, and it feels like they’ve gotten too big, too rationalized, too reductionist. Systems so big that they make us all so small in order to fit.

I’ve just read “At Work in the Ruins” by Dougald Hine, and he talks about finding the proper place for our systems, our science (because they are valuable), finding a grounding for them in shared values of humanity and life. I also just read The Master and His Emissary by Iain McGilchrist, and it deals with similar themes (though is a hugely dense and wide-ranging book, thus hard to summarize).

Thanks for your essay and for the offering of the meditations. Substack is turning into a very cool place!

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